Conflict is a natural part of any organization. Diverse perspectives, competing priorities and even clashes of personalities can create friction that hinders progress. While healthy debate can lead to innovation, unresolved conflict breeds negativity, hampers productivity and ultimately damages organizational harmony.
The question organizations face often is how to know when to step in. While building consensus in a team setting is of course the preferred option, some conflicts persist, escalating despite concerted efforts to resolve them.
In our article “Signs Your Organization Needs a Neutral Third Party to Resolve Conflict and Reasons Why a Neutral Facilitator Is a Good Idea,” we review a few of the telltale signs that it may be time to seek external support, such as conflicts that keep resurfacing, escalated emotions, a decline in productivity and a perception of bias that places employees at an impasse. No matter what solution is proposed, a lack of trust will prevent it from being effective. When these signs emerge, hiring a neutral third party might be the only way to effectively address the crisis, thus preventing further losses in productivity and increased turnover.
If you are considering bringing in a third party, you most likely will also face a critical hurdle: achieving internal consensus on the need for external intervention to resolve conflict. This can often feel like a catch-22. To solve the problem, you need to agree on how to solve the problem. In this article, we’ll give you a few pointers on how to guide your organization toward consensus on this specific topic, hopefully paving the way toward a conflict-free, harmonious and productive team.
First, let's define what consensus building is. It’s usually a structured process that aims to achieve a solution where everyone involved feels heard and can live with a decision. Achieving it within an organization usually requires effective conflict resolution practices, clear decision-making process frameworks and honed consensus-building skills.
In short, even if we’re not talking about a solution, consensus building implies that all participants collectively agree on decisions that might bring the group toward one. In the case of bringing in an external mediator to resolve a conflict, it is important that the stakeholders and parties involved in the conflict agree to give it a try.
Now that we have defined our goal, how exactly do we get there? Below, we have outlined a few conflict resolution and consensus-building techniques that can be applied to this specific problem and help you structure your approach.
An impactful decision such as bringing in an external party to inquire about sensitive topics should always involve key decision-makers from the outset. This usually means not only managers and C-suite executives, but also financial decision-makers. Make sure to identify which stakeholders have the power to greenlight or block initiatives and invite them to join the discussions early. Fill them in on the relevant details of the conflict if they are not yet familiar with them.
By involving stakeholders from the beginning, you foster a sense of ownership and commitment to resolving the conflict collaboratively. When people feel included in the decision-making process, they are more likely to support and champion the initiative. This collective buy-in is essential for achieving organizational consensus and ensuring a smooth implementation of a third party intervention.
Begin by presenting the conflict as a collective challenge that affects everyone involved. This approach helps shift the focus from individual grievances to a shared issue that requires a collaborative solution. When team members see the problem as something that impacts the entire organization, they are more likely to engage in finding a resolution.
For example, instead of saying, "John and Jane can't get along," frame it as "Our team is experiencing communication breakdowns that are affecting our productivity and morale. It’s not an ideal situation for anyone, and I’m sure we all want a resolution as soon as possible."
Now that you have the right parties for a discussion and the right framework, the ways in which you open the discussion are important. For example, if intervening parties of the original conflict are participating, it’s important to choose a structured way of approaching the topics, avoiding opportunities for escalation. Here are a few methods you can use:
During the discussion, you can explain the benefits of neutral, third-party intervention, such as the ability to facilitate effective communication and create a collaborative environment conducive to finding a mutually agreeable solution. These are the advantages of bringing in a neutral third party:
Additionally, there are a few long-term organizational benefits that come from effectively addressing conflict:
Be prepared to address concerns about the third party's role or their process. One of the most common problems is that most decision-makers feel conflict is an issue better handled internally, citing, for example, privacy concerns. While this line of thought is well intentioned, here are some of the reasons why this approach often fails to be effective:
You can also emphasize the third party's commitment to confidentiality. They are aware it’s one of their most valuable currencies.
Being able to review the journey of organizations that went through the same process and harnessed positive results can be the single factor that builds trust and consensus to move forward. JAMS Pathways’ library of case studies is conveniently segmented by industry, which is very helpful if you’re looking for specific examples to include in a presentation.
Additional considerations for the process:
Set clear expectations: Clearly define the scope of the intervention, the desired outcomes and its timeline. This will help manage expectations internally and promote a successful process.
Select the right third party: Choose a third party who has experience in handling similar conflicts and possesses the necessary intervention techniques and consensus-building skills. At JAMS Pathways, we know our biggest asset is our team of seasoned, experienced mediators and conflict professionals, trained to handle conflicts in a variety of industries and formats. We invite you to visit the JAMS Pathways team page to find a profile that meets your organization’s needs.
(…) even if we’re not talking about a solution, consensus building implies that all participants collectively agree on decisions that might bring the group toward one.
While achieving internal consensus to bring in an external third party for conflict resolution may seem like a daunting task, rest assured that it can be done with the right approach. This is the starting point for most organizations willing to efficiently solve conflict, with many having emerged victorious on the other side.
By understanding the end goal for consensus, engaging the right stakeholders and applying effective techniques, you can hopefully conquer organizational conflict—and pave the way for a culture of collaboration and mutual respect.